2008 Supreme(Bom) 921
IN THE HIGH COURT OF BOMBAY
Dalvi Roshan J.
Hutoxi M. Panthaki - Appellant
Versus
Kersi J. Divecha - Respondent.
Interim Petition No.2 of 2008
in Suit No. 5 of 2006
decided on 2-7-2008.
Ms. Sanober P. Nanavati, for petitioner.
Ms. Anusuya Dutt, for respondent.
Headnote:Guardians and Wards Act, 1890 - Section 25-Custody of ward after divorce by mutual consent-In consent terms petitioner gave up her claim to alimony as well as custody of both children-Mother was to have access-Petitioner married soon thereafter-Petitioner failed to handover-Petition filed for modification of consent terms and application for custody of children-Held that the case for modification rests only upon the change of mind and heart of mother.-Since all the allegations made against the father are not substantiated at all, the case for modification rests only upon the change of mind and the change of heart of the mother. In that case the mode exercised by her is seen to be completely incorrect. The children must be given a chance and an opportunity to be with the father to obtain the best out of him. The children must continue with their access to the mother as before to obtain the best out of her.
Guardians and Wards Act, 1890 - Section 25-Order of custody of ward-Application for modification-Held that modification must be in accordance with law and upon obeying of the law.-This is not the case in which the petition can be disposed of by way of a final order. In custody matters modification of the order is the rule rather than the exception. However, modification must be in accordance with law and upon obeying of the law. Breach of orders cannot be lightly allowed in the name of modification except if gross acts of neglect or demerits of a parent having custody are shown.
Guardians and Wards Act, 1890 - Section 25 - Order of custody of ward - Application for modification - Held that modification must be in accordance with law and upon obeying of the law. - This is not the case in which the petition can be disposed of by way of a final order. In custody matters modification of the order is the rule rather than the exception. However, modification must be in accordance with law and upon obeying of the law. Breach of orders cannot be lightly allowed in the name of modification except if gross acts of neglect or demerits of a parent having custody are shown.
2. They applied for divorce by mutual consent in the above suit on 20th February, .2006. They filed consent terms. In the consent terms the mother gave up her claim to alimony or maintenance. She also gave up custody of both the children. The father was to have custody of both the children. The mother was to have access on second and fourth week ends and half school vacations.
3. The parties were married in 1992. Children were born in 1992 and 1998. The mother left the matrimonial home in 2004. They filed the divorce petition in 2006. The mother remarried in 2007.
4. At the time of the filing of the consent terms Jehan was 13 years and Sheroy was 7 years old. Jehan was studying in Standard VIII and Sheroy was studying in Standard IV.
5. The mother did not take access to the 1 children in the school vacations in 2006.
6. It is her contention that, that was because she did not want to disturb the children's studies. She married soon thereafter. She has now settled with her new husband in Vikroli. She claimed access during the last summer vacation of May, 2008. She was to hand over custody of the children to the father at the end of the May vacation. She did not hand over the custody as per the consent terms signed by them. She instead filed this Petition for modification of the consent terms. She has applied for grant of custody and change of school of the children.
7. On the face of the consent" terms she is in breach. The Consent terms came to be a part of the order of the Court. Having breached that order, she is in contempt. It I need hardly be mentioned that she should t have abided the order of the Court and returned the children to the custody of the father pending any application for modification of the consent terms made by her. She has not done that on the ground that the children never wanted to return to the father.
8. This change of heart has come at a very late stage. It has come after her remarriage and after she has settled with her new husband. It has come after the children were left to be cared for by the father for about 4 years. The father has not remarried. He lives with his mother and his two children at Parel. She lives with her present husband at Vikroli.
9. When she left the husband in 2004 she lived with her parents at Thane. She has stated that she did not take custody of the children then, because her parent's house was small in area.
10. The father has contended, and prima facie justifiably, that she did not take custody of the children before her marriage whilst she wanted to be alone and away from her children. It was during those times that the father cared for the children and kept their custody. He contends that now she has well settled. She has sought to take away the children to be used as her investment as she has advanced in age.
11. Various allegations are made by her in the petition to show how the father is unfit to have custody of the children. This is despite the fact, that upon whatever was the dispossession of the father, she had allowed him to have custody of the children in the consent terms and obtained the divorce and remarried thereafter.
12. She has produced xerox copies of certain documents showing expenses incurred for the children. Most of the documents are of the year 2008. It is seen that during the summer vacation when she kept custody of the children she incurred certain expenses. That is natural. She has produced certain bills of certain stores showing purchase of materials. These do not show who purchased the goods and for whom. She claims that the father did not incur sufficient medical expenses for medical treatment of the children, which she has done. The father has produced copies of medical prescriptions and bills• showing what he has done for the children. It is not understood how both the parties lay so much emphas