RATNAMMA v. RASIAH
NLR48V475
1947 Present: Dias J.
RATNAMMA, Appellant, and RASIAH, Respondent.
S. C. 695-M. C. Jaffna, 3,153.
Marriage-Hindu Custom- -Tying of
Thali-Sufficient if symbolic-Habit and repute-Presumption-Consent of father of
minor-Is it necessary ?
The tying of a thali is essential for the validity of a Hindu customary
marriage. It is sufficient, however, if a symbolic thali be used provided it is
intended to serve as a thali.
Where parties after going through a valid customary form of marriage live
together as husband and wife, a presumption of marriage by habit and repute
arises.
The want of consent of the father of a minor who contracts a Hindu customary
marriage does not invalidate the marriage where the union has been consummated.
APPEAL
from a judgment of the Magistrate of
Jaffna.
No appearance for the applicant-appellant,
H. W. Thambiah, for the defendant-respondent.
Cur. adv. vult.
476
September 17, 1947. DIAS J.-
This is an application under the Maintenance Ordinance by Ratnamma who claims
she is the lawfully wedded wife of the respondent Tambiah Rasiah,
The union was not registered. The parties are Jaffna Tamils. In regard to such
persons, there can be a valid marriage without registration-Valliammai v.
Annammai 1[(1900) 4 N. L. R. 8.]; Poopalaratnam v. Sabapathi-Pillai
2 [(1921) C. L. Rec. 210.].
The evidence shows that in January, 1937, a marriage ceremony according to Hindu
rites was performed between the parties by Parameshwara Kurukkal, the priest of
the Kanaarmadam Temple. This ceremony was intended to be a marriage. It was
public and guests were present. The priest has given evidence to the effect that
he performed all the rites of a second rate " Hindu wedding. He says " The bare
essentials wanted for a wedding are the Pilliayar Poojah and the tying of the
thalikody in the presence of the aged people by a priest and the presentation of
the kurai. All these were done at this wedding but only the kody and not the
thali was tied ". It is common ground that this was not done because " the
planets were unfavourable for the tying of the thali". It is believed that when
the planets are not propitious and the usual gold thali is tied, the bridegroom
will die within a short time after the ceremony. Therefore a symbolic thali was
tied instead. The priest says " A piece of turmeric was tied to it (i.e., the
kody) in place of the thali. I questioned Nagalingam ....... He said the
planetary positions were not favourable and that the thali could not be tied. We
tied the turmeric as it is a requirement of religion. There is provision in the
Shastras that the officiating priest can use his discretion as to what should
take the place of the thali. If no piece of saffron was fixed to the kody in
place of the thali, it was not a valid marriage". If this priest's view is right
the tying of the thali is essential but it may be a symbolic thali and the
officiating priest has a discretion in the matter. The priest is corroborated by
the witness Velauthaipillai that a piece of saffron was used as a symbolic
thali.
The respondent called M. Vaiteswara Kurukkal, the officiating priest of the
Vairava Temple, as an expert. He agrees that the tying of the thali is an
essential requisite for a Hindu marriage according to the customary rites. He
agrees that there are various forms of ceremonial which vary according to the
status of the contracting parties, but he says he has not heard of a symbol like
turmeric being used in place of the gold thali. At one stage he said, "According
to the wishes of the parties anything can be tied as a thali". At another stage
he said that the thali must be of gold. " If there is no gold thali I will not
perform the marriage, as the rites cannot be performed in accordance with
religion ".
It is clear that the tying of the thali is an essential requirement for the
validity of a marriage between Hindus according to customary rites and if thi