IN THE HIGH COURT OF KERALA AT ERNAKULAM
DEVAN RAMACHANDRAN, M.B. SNEHALATHA, JJ.
Sreedhanya Bhaskaran D/o M.T. Bhaskaran – Appellant
Versus
Balakrishnan V.S. S/o Surendran V.R. – Respondent
O.P. (FC) No. 612 of 2025
Decided On : 04-11-2025
| Table of Content |
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| 1. impact of court on child's emotional state. (Para 2 , 3 , 5 , 6) |
| 2. counseling's role in custody dynamics. (Para 7 , 10) |
| 3. parental claims conflicting with child's comfort. (Para 8 , 9) |
JUDGMENT :
Devan Ramachandran, J.
1. We are certifying this judgment to be reported, not for anything novel we say, but in reiteration of something so ubiquitous that it misses attention.
2. This is yet another case where parents are fighting for custody of their child.
3. The child was produced before us; and, in him, we saw a little boy whose spirit is broken, markedly tenebrous in his comportment, seemingly depressed and without even a trace of smile on his tender lips. It took us several patient hours with him, to make him feel like child he is; to make him less scared and insecure and to finally smile.
4. His smile was radiant, pure like the first rays of light upon sunrise on a aurelian horizon.
5. After he became composed a little, the child told us, in full hearing of his parents, in a sharp tone, that he hates being paraded in Court and loathes being called again.
6. We, once again, saw the cataclysmic impact Court and legal proceedings can bring upon a tender life; and think it imperatively necessitous to reiterate what this Court said in Indu v. Thomas @ Manoj, 2025 (3) KHC 295.
7. The petitioner has approached this Court seeking that the respondent be directed to produce his minor son before this Court and hand over his custody to her; or in alternative, that the said Court be directed to consider and pass orders on Ext.P3 - I.A.No.6/2025 in O.P.(G&W)502/2025, within a time frame to be fixed by this Court.
8. Sri.S.Nirmal - appearing for the petitioner, explained that the aforementioned Original Petition has been filed by his client seeking permanent custody of her son; but, that the respondent has been obdurately refusing to appear or to produce him before the learned Family Court, thus being constrained to approach this Court.
9. Smt.Rema - appearing for the respondent, on the other hand, submitted that the facts are not as stated by Sri.S.Nirmal and that her client has appeared before the learned Family Court and is contesting the matter, as per law. She reiterated that, her client has never refused to appear before the Court; and that all allegations to the contrary are untrue.
10. We do not propose to enter into the merits of the above rival submissions at this time, for various reasons.
11. The parties were before us with the child on 31.10.2025, when we saw that the child was behaving in a rather unusual manner because, even though he had affection for his mother, he was unwilling to go to her. At the request of both sides, we offered them counselling, under the aegis of the Counselling Centre of this Court; and the report is available before us.
12. The Counsellor reports that the child was very comfortable and relaxed in his mother’s presence; but that the parties insisted that each of them obtain full custody.
13. We, thereafter, considered this matter on 3.11.2025, when, with the consent of both sides, we allowed the mother to retain interim custody of the child for a night, but to remain at Ernakulam and to be present before this Court today at 1.45 p.m.
14. However, what we saw today is a complete turn around, with both sides accusing each other, but conceding that the child did not go with the mother. On one hand, Smt.Rema said that the child was being coerced by the mother and forced to go with her; while Sri.Nirmal submitted that it was on account of the tutoring of the child by the father that he was showing reluctance, and that he would have gone had he be given some time, but which was obstructed.
15. Be that as it may, we interacted with the parties again today; and we allowed the mother and the child to be within our Chambers for over one and a half hours, when we were in Court continuing with our work. The entire interaction has been recorded by the Registry of this Court and is available. It shows without any
The court underscores the importance of prioritizing the child's wellbeing in custody disputes while ensuring prompt judicial review.
The court underscores the paramount importance of a child's right to spend time with both parents during custody disputes.
Custody arrangements must prioritize children's welfare and emotional needs, advocating a shift from parent-centric to a children-centric approach to ensure their best interests.
The court emphasizes minimizing trauma to children in custody disputes while affirming interim custody arrangements pending Family Court decisions.
The court affirmed that children's welfare must be prioritized in custody disputes, emphasizing the psychological impact of litigation on children and ordering minimal courtroom exposure.
The court recognizes a child's preference in custody matters and emphasizes mediation between disputing parents.
Custodial arrangements must consider children's agency and preferences, prohibiting forced interactions with estranged parents.
The court emphasized that the welfare of the child is paramount in custody disputes, and children should not be subjected to court appearances unless necessary.
The court prioritizes the child's welfare in custody matters, allowing interim custody to the mother.
The court prioritizes the child's best interests, emphasizing a stable environment free from parental conflict.
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